What to Expect in Court-Ordered Mediation

Divorce can be one of the most stressful transitions, especially when children are involved. In California, when parents cannot agree on custody or visitation, court-ordered mediation is required before a judge will make any orders in your case.

At the Law Office of Angel J. Jordan, we guide parents through this process with a philosophy that is compassionate, collaborative, and client-focused.

What Is Court-Ordered Mediation?

Court-ordered mediation is a structured process where a neutral mediator helps parents work towards an agreement regarding child custody and parenting time. Unlike a private divorce mediation that covers all aspects of a divorce- such as child custody, property division, support, or other matters- court-ordered mediation focuses specifically on the 'best interest of the child; thereby helping parents create a parenting plan that supports the child's stability and well-being.

Depending on the county, the mediator may

1. Help parents reach a mutual agreement and forward it to the court;

2. Make recommendations to the judge if parents cannot agree.

What to Expect in the Mediation Process

Here’s what typically happens in a child custody mediation:

1. Initial Intake or Orientation – Parents may attend an orientation, complete paperwork, or receive instructions about how the process works;

2. Mediation Session- Both parents meet with the mediator to discuss custody, visitation, parenting schedules, or related issues;

3. Agreement or Recommendations: If parents reach an agreement, it is submitted to the court for approval; however, if the parents do not agree, the mediator may provide recommendations to the judge-depending on the local rules and the county.

   
   

   What is important to remember is that the focus should be on listening, communicating, and problem-solving during the mediation process.

   
   

Benefits of Court Mediation

Court-ordered mediation can be stressful, but it offers important benefits:

• Child Centered Solutions- Keeps the focus on the best interest of the child, not the conflict between parents;

• Reduces Conflict-Encourages parents to communicate and practice co-parenting strategies, such as problem solving;

• Faster Resolutions- Agreements reached during mediations aim to resolve custody disputes more quickly than waiting for a court hearing or trial;

• Empowerment: Parents have the opportunity to create a parenting plan that fits their child best.

  
  

How The Law Office of Angel J. Jordan Can Help

While the mediator is neutral, having a knowledgeable family law attorney helps you:

• Prepare for mediation by understanding what issues are likely to be discussed;

• Identify your priorities, compromises, and deal breakers;

• Review any proposed parenting plan before you sign it;

• Protect your rights while keeping the focus on your child's best interest.

  
  

At the Law Office of Angel J. Jordan, we prepare clients for mediation, review agreements, and offer legal guidance at every step. Our approach is rooted in compassionate, collaborative, and client focused advocacy.

FAQ'S ABOUT COURT-ORDERED MEDIATION IN CALIFORNIA

Q: Is mediation mandatory in every divorce?

A: Mediation is mandatory in California whenever custody or visitation is in dispute. For property, support, or other issues, mediation is optional and can be handled through private mediation.

Q: What if we cannot agree on mediation?

A: If no agreement is reached, the judge will decide. In some counties, the mediator will provide recommendations to the court.

Q: Do I need an attorney if the mediator is neutral?

A: Yes. The mediator cannot provide legal advice. Having an attorney ensures that your rights are protected and that the parenting plan supports both your child's needs and your case objectives.

Is Mediation Right for You?

Mediation works best when both parents are willing to communicate openly and compromise. It may not be appropriate in cases involving domestic violence, substance abuse, or situations where one party refuses to participate in good faith.

Final Thoughts

Court-ordered mediation can feel overwhelming, but with the right preparation and guidance, it is also an opportunity to create a parenting plan that truly works for your family.

At the Law Office of Angel J. Jordan, Esq., we stand by our philosophy of being compassionate, collaborative, and client-focused. If you are facing court-ordered mediation in your divorce case, we are here to support you every step of the way. Schedule a confidential consultation today with a top-rated Los Angeles family law attorney!

Gain clarity, direction, and peace of mind as you navigate this important process for your children.